RULES TO WIN THE BATTLE BETWEEN HEAD AND HEART.

If your heart says yes and your head says no, then utter what comes out of your mouth first. You are in charge of your own life; you need to let yourself decide what is best for you. Life is complicated enough to make it the bestseller movie of the year. Giving your head and heart your consent to turn the place into a war zone is to prove to have nothing between your ears. Care more about yourself than about others. Its, sometimes, acceptable to be confused, but there are certain ways to get rid of the commotion of thoughts inside you. By getting on to them, you are ready to stoop to conquer.  

It is your life; you own it. The first thing you need to do is stop asking others to help you choose. There are two options in front of you. One, that your heart is telling you and the other that your head wants you to pick. The organs are inside of you.

How is anybody else going to understand the signals they are sending you?

Confusion rules this world; chances are, the person you are going to for advice got their feet colder than yours.  They might have a different perspective of life than yours. Circumstances of your life are understood best by you only. Giving someone the key to your apartment will only lock you out.The best way to make the future-you proud of the present-you is by living a life doing things that best fit you. Make a list of all the pros and cons of the options you are confused between and pick the one with most pros or the least cons.The point to ponder is DECIDE YOURSELF.

Apart from making  the list, walking usually helps reduce the confusion. Every time you find yourself in a place with no contented answer, take a peaceful walk down the people-free lane, breath in and out the pollution-free air and clear out all your thoughts. Once you're done with all that, picture yourself few years from now. The place you want yourself to be will be your answer to the confusion.

If winning a battle seems hard, try preventing it in the first place. It’s okay to have options.Choices we make might not turn out to be exactly the way we picture them, but each event occurs in your life for a reason.Such reasons never disappoint you; they are God’s way of telling you that He got better plans for you than you do. The serpents of the dessert are sometimes overlooked by us, but when the wind makes you change your direction, it’s for your own protection. Never try to win the battle between heart and head, envisage yourself in both situations and whichever makes you hop with happiness is the one for you.

Take your time while making a decision, but once you have made it,stick by it no matter what. Tragedies make you strong and happiness is the reward of your struggle. The outcome of your choice has to be dealt by you. When things turn out bad, don’t ever think it’s because of your choice. You had to choose and you picked whichever made you happy. Every path will have it’s own struggles. You can never blame your own self for the  misfortunes of life.