CONQUER YOUR FEARS

If life places you in situations that makes you panic, then the best way to deal with it is to show the world you can do it. Bravery is measured by our ability to act; actions define who you are. Only you are aware of your weaknesses, but once you reveal it to the world, they can be used against you. The best way to prevent such happenings is to pretend you’re good at what you suck at. The irony here is, we are aware of all the steps we need to take in order to succeed, but we are unaware of the ways to make that happen.

The best way to make sure the right kind of actions define you, is to never refrain from performing. Bravery is best defined by your ability to try. Nobody came to this world with a Gold medal in their hands. Certainly, nobody mastered the art of divergence. Your fears are the challenges in life that’ll only vanish if you succeed. There’s no failure, but you get to click the ‘try again’ option several times. The only hurdle between you and your reward is your lack of faith in yourself and your low level of tolerance. 

If life is giving the chance to make yourself perfect, why are you depriving yourself of the success that awaits you?

You can trust nobody in your battle. Your fears are well-known by you. Messing with the natural order of things is only going to prove harmful for you. Letting someone dive in in your sea of fears will only drown you. Make peace with the fact that,

“Some humans exist to take pleasure in your misery”. 

If you are going to let them, you are the only one to blame yourself at the end. It’s hard to be alone in your battles, but your pain is not other’s to be felt. Your focus should never be on the person standing beside you or behind you or in front of you, but about the fear you need to overcome. Distractions will only make you lose faith in your own self.

The most easy way to overcome your fears and let people believe you have none is to pretend to be perfect at it. Once you start pretending to be good at something, you build a unique confidence inside of you. That confidence is all you need to overcome your fear. Your dismay is never going to vanish if you won’t be confident enough to execute whatever it takes to flourish the test.

No doubt life is hard with all the challenges and tragedies. Fighting fears and conquering them will take something off of your plate. You are always going to be there for your own self and you don’t need someone to be there for you. Find what haunts you in your dream, figure out the best places to hunt them down and extinguish them from your life.