ATTACHMENT VANISHES SOON

If having opposite sex chat partners was a crime, we’d all be in jail right now. We found ourselves changing between meeting someone for the first time and then eventually ending up on the road to knowing them better. The world felt heaven when they were by our sides for a whole good period of time. The world, also, felt a lonely place when your significant other got busy or lost their charm. Either way, we have all lived the magical days of feeling special and owning someone at some point.

COMPLAINING AND COMPLIMENTING LIKE ITS YOUR JOB.

“Why didn’t you reply?”

“Call me I am not feeling so good.”

 “We haven't talked properly for two days.”

“I miss you. “

“You're the best I swear.”

Text messages like these were either received or sent.

I am talking about the days we ignored our family and close friends for that one person. I just don't mean boyfriends or girlfriends, I am talking about those great friends that made your phone vibrate every 2 second throughout the day and night, simply because you guys were attached emotionally. The safety of the other person became your concern. The issues of their lives depressed you. Their happiness made you smile wild.

Yes. You are right. It's a history now. Things have changed, but why are you facing that depression?

TRUST ME, YOU SWEET SOUL. IT IS TEMPORARY.

Yes you have turned into strangers now or their behavior has changed a little or your beloved crime partner is busy now, but it is all temporary. So is your life.

It is time to not be bothered by the fact that the other person is not giving you the amount of time they used to or you're not as comfortable as you used to be. Jerks are born to make your life difficult. How are you going to learn who is the one for you if a couple of heart breakers won't ruin your days?

Few months from now, you’re going to look back at all of this and wonder how stupid you were to drown in the sea of your own tears because people are not worth it. Everyone will leave you at some point in life. Everyone will change in a negative way at some point in life. Not because they are trying to hurt you, but because they are, also, fighting battles of their own in their lives. You just have to be strong enough to not be dependent on them for your own hurdles. Your life is far more amazing than you give it credit for, so before you lose all the treasures you have in life, make the most of them.