WHAT IS YOUR 'WHY' IN LIFE?

A little alone time can be the source of ecstasy and wisdom. When you are alone, you think, sometimes overthink and most of the time observe. The amount of knowledge you absorb while observing surpasses the amount of facts you remember from a lecture . Let’s have a live example, Shall we?

Try observing an article of water and notice how it keeps flowing without knowing where it will end up. Give it a direction and it will start flowing in that direction. Try placing obstacles and it will make it’s own way through. Place a huge obstacle and that stubborn article of water will still slip under the big giant rock.

The only difference between water and humans is that humans are capable of changing their path. They have an option to not go with the flow and make their own path. It depends merely on humans what they do with their capability.

We, humans, simply don't change our path. There is always a reason to change it. A 'Why'. Everybody has a “why” in their lives. A reason of “why” they did what they did. A reason of “why” they are doing what they are being has a goal. doing and “why” they would do what they would do. Basically, every normal human

Goal is the basic need of life. Its the most mandatory thing a person should have in life. If you have no goal, you will end up somewhere you haven't even seen, just like water. It sometimes ends up in an ocean, sometimes in a salty sea and sometimes in a gutter.  

A friend recently told him his 'Why' in life. His reason for  change of his path. Many appreciated him. Many said he did wrong. He had a strong reason. He had a goal to fulfill. He had a destination. Few years from now saying, 'I did it' would be better than saying, 'if only I would have'

People agreeing with him supported him. Those who didn't eventually forgot about it. That's the funny thing about people. They don't understand you and still judge you. Not understanding your perspective about things is why they give negative opinions; not because they hated it. Making would do it all. Let your success speak for you. them understand isn’t your job. Showing them your goal when you achieve it.

Peoples opinions are the obstacles in your life. Sometimes they are so big you stop for a minute to think if what you did is wrong or right. Going back to your old path and ending up somewhere you don't even like would be more difficult than continuing on the path that suits you best. After all who knows you better than you do?

Sometimes a person's goal is to be rich. Being rich isn't good enough unless it gives you happiness. Unless it brings a smile on your face. Unless it gives you that satisfying feeling inside your stomach that makes you wanna jump with happiness.

When you have a why, really strong why, you are ready to make every sacrifice for it because you know how important it is for you. Others may not understand it but you do know the value of your why in your life. Being distracted by people's opinion is only gonna make it hard for you to achieve your goal.

 So the first thing you need in your life right now is not a ‘why’ but a piece of cotton to help you focus on your ‘why” in life.