FLOWERS OF YOUR GARDEN.

The teenagers and adults of this modern era are an open book. Social networking sites are the key to discover our hidden skeleton closets. If not secrets, then our ongoing state of mind or our obstacles in life are all on our profiles. Displaying everything on our profiles is a way of letting our loved ones know we need them. There is nothing wrong in showing our loved ones the hurdles we are going through in life. Such snide act to let them know of our pain is better than hiding in a dark room bearing it all ourselves.

When it comes to letting them know, we don't hesitate. Reason is we know they would help us go through it. Again, there is nothing wrong with that, but what doesn't fit in the picture is that based on the fact that we have someone to care for us, we start letting things get to our heads. Hurdles are a part of life. They don't weaken us, but gives us strength. The encouragement to turn our problems into challenges comes from our loved ones. The ones we put up statuses for. The real struggle is not facing a problem,but how we deal with our loved ones when they appear. Showing them, we love them in our happy times is a sign that our brains are not stuck somewhere else. Taking them for granted when a problem arrives only alludes us to failure, we are about to face in life. Not by losing the one who didn't text us back, but by losing the ones who were there for us. Simply because we were too blinded to see how important they are. 

What we fail to realize is that just because we didn't pass the test we badly studied for or we didn't get the guy or girl we fell for or we didn't get into the institute, we wanted to, no matter what opportunities we got deprived of, this isn’t the worst time of our lives. We have a shoulder to cry on. The worst time of our lives would be the time we'll get deprived of that shoulder. The worst time of our lives would be the time we'll have no shoulder to cry on. We'll have no one to care. 

People who care for you are the ones who deserve you in their lives. They are the flowers of your garden. Never let the hurdles in your lives keep you from adoring your flowers. Don't be included in the list of people whose flowers get crushed in front of their eyes and they don't even notice.

' NEVER LET THE HURDLES CRUSH YOUR FLOWERS'